Your Safety Planning Toolkit
This page provides resources and information to help you stay informed, plan for safety, and access support. If you or someone you know may be experiencing abuse, help is available.
Get Immediate Help
If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
You can also speak confidentially with a trained advocate anytime through our 24/7 Crisis Line: 704-690-0362
For general assistance or to speak with our staff during office hours: Office: 704-694-4499 | Hours: Monday – Friday | 8:00 AM – 4:00 PM
Advocates are available to provide support, safety planning, and information about available resources.
Safety Planning Resources
Safety plans can help you think through options and prepare for situations that may put you at risk. You can download the following resources:
Safety Plan Guide – Steps to help you create a personal safety plan.
Download Safety Plan PDFPower and Control Wheel – A visual guide explaining common patterns of abuse.
Download Power & Control Wheel PDFDanger Assessment Tool – A resource that helps identify potential risk factors in abusive relationships.
Download Danger Assessment PDF
These resources are meant to support your awareness and planning. Every situation is different, and advocates are available to help you create a plan that works for you.
Tips For Court
Preparing For Court
Bring copies of important documents (reports, photos, messages, medical records).
Write down key events or dates to help you remember details.
Plan transportation and arrive early.
Bring a trusted person or advocate for support if possible.
Dress comfortably and respectfully.
Silence your phone before entering the courtroom.
No phones in Anson County Courthouse*
Ask an advocate or court staff if you have questions about the process.
While in Court
Listen carefully to the judge and court staff.
Speak clearly when answering questions.
Ask for clarification if you do not understand something.
Answer only the question being asked.
Use notes if they help you remember details.
Take a moment to breathe if you feel overwhelmed.
Seek support from an advocate if available.
After Court
Keep copies of any court orders or paperwork you receive.
Follow any instructions or next steps provided by the court.
Update your safety plan if needed.
Share protective orders with trusted places such as work, school, or childcare if appropriate.
Reach out to an advocate for continued support and resources.